Mon, Feb 18 2013, 10:40 AM EST
First off this post disgusts me. All it is is a bunch of furries with nothing better to do than bitch, immaturity at its finest. Typical. This is why people have issues with this fucking fandom. But anyhow, to the point.
Hey, im Cyclone (Jaga's mate) Im going to explain this situation simple and in as few words as possible.
1) Yes, I knew of Jaga's gender differences before we even dated, I was the first he told. I t doesnt matter period to me, I love him no matter what and always will, gender or sex doesnt matter in true love in my mind.
2) My family is the hugest piece of shit on the face of this planet. Mother is a dumb slut who cheated on my father, spent all my child support on stupid bullshit, and ran around with hundreds of random men my whole life. My father is a crappy ex cop who physically and mentally abused me. My brother is a drug dealing sack who has destroyed my personal things throughout my life over and over again. Has ruins with the cops and a mile long record at only 19. Hes a worthless piece of shit
3) Jaga's family is super wealthy but doenst help him with anything, prude, dramatic, rash, and self absorbed. They hate anyone who is not rich or who they dont think is right for Jaga. meaning their ideal life for Jaga is, married to a rich guy, being a stay at home mom, but have some stupid high paying college degree when he has learning disabilities and a hard time in school to begin with. Noting is ever good enough, they abuse him mentally and throw him out randomly for no reason at all and then beg him to come back. He feels guilty and just wants them to accept him, honestly its a lost cause but try telling him that :/ .
4) Jaga himself is a very anxious individual, always wanting to make others happy, always wanting to please, always afraid of loosing friends. Would do anything in the world for others, the most selfless person I know. What for? Only to be used and treated like shit. It happens, people suck but he always keeps giving. Aside from this, he doesnt like drama nor does he like bitching too much because he is afraid of upsetting or annoying everyone. So Jaga's largest fault is not telling full stories. He throws up what details are shocking and that he feels is important to get the needed or desired responses and then thats it. And honestly with this current situation there was so much that could not be said due to the court and legal issues of it all. So he said what he could.
5) Yes, I have medical issues, bad ones at that. I also do not have medical insurance. Jaga is worried, and we were actually doing well for a bit and we were trying to get money to get my old medical bills paid so I could go see a dentist and get some teeth pulled then just see a doctor in general. After all of this bullshit with my piece of shit family sadly this couldnt happen. But Jaga wouldnt give up, he asked her friends for help because she saw me sick every day and after talking with an EMT friend of ours we realized one of my personal issues was very serious and needed medical attention, he freaked and asked for help from the very fandom he has given so much to over the years and to the friends he would at the drop of a hat drive to see or do anything for.
6) What happened Really
Jaga's family treated her like shit. Jaga was talked into telling her mother that she saw herself as a he. Jaga's mother acted like it was ok and was loving and "understanding" Then told Jaga's father and caused drama, a typical thing in his family. Both of Jaga's parents threatened to kill themselves caused drama and told Jaga to leave. Jaga moved in with me at my mothers. My mother had a boyfriend she was supposed to move out with. That didnt work out Typically, and my jobless lowlife mother wanted to mooch off of me and Jaga, the only two with jobs at the time. We let it go for a bit, then when the medical expenses for me got to be a bit much and for Jaga's gender therapy I told my mother no that I would not facilitate her any longer. My mother caused drama. Tried to get Jaga to side with her, obviously failing. Tried to hit Jaga, I defended him and my mother attacked me instead. Jaga suggested we call the cops, my fault, we didnt. My mother then wrecked the house and called the cops saying Jaga and I attacked her. We then got thrown out. Because of this I could not make it to work it was too far, I had no car at the time that ran and Jaga was my main transport so we ended up going to a motel for a week and went through what little money we had. Jaga did not have enough money to make it to my work and then back to his parents, so I lost my job. This was when Jaga asked for donations privately with a few friends just to help us get on our feet. We were going to get an apartment, that fell through. The day we were supposed to look at said apartment, we went back to my mothers house to get the rest of our stuff. Jaga waited in the car, I walked up the drive to the house. My mother wasnt there, only my stoned brother. He told me it was safe to come up. So Jaga came up to help. Long story short, my drugged brother attacked Jaga, I defended Jaga, he and I fought bad, he got in his car and hit Jaga's car taking the door off. We called the cops, while waiting for the cops to get there he returned with a gun threatening to kill us. We fled in my half broken down truck amazed that it ran by some gods miracle. The police got to the house to find my brother had taken Jaga's keys that were left in his car and joy rode the car and totaled it. Jagas parents came to pick us up. we were no longer safe in that area. We stayed with them for a bit. Then they threw us out. We bounced around for weeks all over trying to get jobs, trying to do art for money, Jaga then publicly asked for donations. These went to my medical, food, and getting my truck legal so we had transport other than relying on our friends. As a gift due to drama and stress out friends in exchange for Jaga's art took us to the New Years Furry Ball OH WHAT A CRIME to have friends who care. Jaga then was allowed to move back home a few weeks ago. It seemed to be going well till his family stuck again last week and threw him out. We are still looking for a place to live. Its been hell. And yes, although Not properly updated, we are not going to any cons. Maybe FWA because it was paid for back when we had money and a our friends once again want us there and want to drive us and such, in exchange for art. But who knows at this point. If so that would be the only thing we do.
Seriously guys, stop picking on people you know nothing about. Get lives, get jobs and fuck off.